A private society for families who require no introduction.
Three chapters. One membership. Family office and corporate services for those who already know what they need.
—The Cotswolds
—Dubai
—Singapore
Chapter I
Asherfield House
Bourton-on-the-Hill, Gloucestershire
A Grade II listed manor in working farmland. No gate. No signage. Eleven bedrooms, a library with no catalogue, and a croquet lawn that has never been measured correctly.
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Chapter II
The Desert House
Al Qudra, Dubai — Headquarters
A private compound forty minutes beyond the city. No public address. Members are collected. The lights appear before the house does. Membership cards are issued here.
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Chapter III
The Emerald Room
Emerald Hill Road, Singapore
A restored shophouse with no name on the door. Ring once. The bar carries 200 spirits, none labelled. The upper room requires the quarterly password.
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The society
Founded in 1997. Still by introduction only.
Alistair Vere-Pemberton invited eleven families to dinner at Asherfield House in the autumn of 1997. No agenda was circulated. At the end of the evening, a card was left at each place. The society has operated in much the same way since.
We provide family office services, corporate advisory, and three addresses where members may eat, think, and be left alone.
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Membership
There is no application form.
Associates are proposed in writing by an existing Member or Fellow and seconded by another. The council meets on the first Monday of each quarter. Outcomes are communicated by post.
Membership cards are issued from the Dubai chapter only. The waiting period is currently fourteen months.
Membership and enquiries
"The Cotswolds is where you belong. Dubai is where you decide. Singapore is where things cease to require further discussion."
Chapter I — The Cotswolds
Asherfield House
Bourton-on-the-Hill, Gloucestershire. A Grade II listed manor in working farmland. The society's oldest address and its least hurried. Gideon has been tending the kitchen garden since 1994 and sees no reason to adjust his schedule for anyone.
Arriving
There is no gate. The lane off the B4479 is unmarked — a gap in the hedge that looks private because it is. The house appears after a quarter-mile of gravel, set back in farmland that belongs to it. Members find it the first time by asking someone who already knew.
Address
Asherfield House Bourton-on-the-Hill Gloucestershire, GL56 9AQ No signage. No intercom.
Opening hours
Thursday – Sunday Lunch from 12:30 Dinner from 7:00pm Country weekends Oct – March by arrangement
The building
Grade II listed, 1743. Former seat of the Vere-Pemberton family. Eleven bedrooms, two drawing rooms, a library with no catalogue, and a walled kitchen garden.
Dress
Smart country. Ties not required at dinner. Trainers have never been formally prohibited — they have simply never appeared.
British cheese, Gideon's quince paste, walnut bread
The cheese board has no fixed end time. Members are expected to judge this for themselves.
The library bar
Open after dinner until the last member considers it appropriate to leave. No last orders are called.
Seasonal programme
Spring country weekend — members and families April
Cheltenham week hospitality, private box March
The Asherfield croquet invitational June · results unofficial
Autumn shoot, Northleach estate October · Fellows and guests
Winter dining, members only December · no agenda
Chapter II — Dubai · Headquarters
The Desert House
Al Qudra, Dubai. A private compound forty minutes beyond the city, in the desert. There is no public address. Members are collected. The lights appear before the house does. This is where membership cards are issued and where the council meets.
Arriving
Members are collected from their hotel or residence. The car travels south for approximately forty minutes, the skyline dropping away behind the Al Qudra lakes. At a point where the road appears to end, it doesn't. The compound lights appear first — low, amber, set into the ground — before the house itself is visible.
Address
The Desert House Al Qudra Reserve, Dubai No public address. Coordinates shared on membership.
Opening hours
Monday – Saturday Lunch from 12:30 Dinner from 8:00pm The house does not close before the last member has left
The building
Four connected pavilions built in 2001, acquired in 2003. Orientated so that no window faces the direction of Dubai. Eleven acres. A pool that appears to end at the desert.
Dress
No stated code. Members who have asked have been told: "however you arrive is correct." Members who have tested this believe it is not entirely true.
The dining pavilion
To begin
Sea bass crudo, yuzu, finger lime, micro shiso
Wagyu tartare, quail egg, black truffle, brioche
Burrata, heirloom tomato confit, aged balsamic
Main
Slow-cooked A5 wagyu short rib, bone marrow gratin
Grilled hammour, saffron broth, pearl couscous
Rack of lamb, sumac jus, pomegranate labneh
The terrace
October through April. Seats sixteen. Not bookable. Members who want it arrive early and find it either available or already occupied by someone they know.
The fire
Lit at sunset, year-round. No formal designation. Members have been known to conduct significant business here and deny having done so.
Annual programme
Membership card ceremony January · invitation required
Desert gathering, Liwa dunes February · Fellows only · overnight
Annual Fellows' dinner, private pavilion April
Council quarter days Jan, Apr, Jul, Oct
Families summer week, Asherfield Arranged from Dubai · August
Bali gathering With Singapore chapter · November
Chapter III — Singapore
The Emerald Room
14 Emerald Hill Road. No name on the door. Ring once. The chapter does not open before dark. It seats 24 for dinner and has a private room above that seats 8 and has hosted conversations that have not entered any record.
Arriving
Number 14 is a restored Peranakan shophouse set slightly back from the road. No name on the door, no menu in the window, no light above the entrance. You ring once. The door opens from the inside. Members visiting for the first time are told: ring once, give your name, do not mention the society by name on the street.
Address
14 Emerald Hill Road Singapore 229299 No signage. Ring once.
Opening hours
Tuesday – Saturday From 6:00pm The Emerald Room does not open before dark.
The building
A restored Peranakan shophouse. Three rooms on the ground floor. A bar running the length of the second room. The courtyard at the rear, open to the sky. The upper floor has never been photographed.
Dress
No stated dress code. This is the strictest dress code of all three chapters.
The Emerald Room — dining
To begin
Chilled lobster, green mango, kaffir lime
Scallop, black garlic, bonito foam, dashi jelly
Cold silken tofu, century egg, sesame oil, ash
Main
Braised Ibérico pork cheek, preserved lemon rice
Poached Dover sole, XO butter, jade noodle
Wagyu striploin, betel leaf chimichurri, tamarind
The bar
Approximately 200 spirits. None labelled on the wall. Members describe what they want. Wei has not yet required clarification.
The courtyard
Open to the sky, year-round. Four tables. Not reservable. Members who want it arrive before 8pm.
The upper room
Requires the quarterly password. Seats 8. Changes on the first of January, April, July, and October. Communicated in the members' letter only.
Annual programme
Lunar New Year dinner, members and families January or February
Grand Prix hospitality, private terrace September
Fellows' transit dinner Quarterly · members passing through
Bali gathering With Dubai chapter · November
Year-end gathering, upper room December · password required
The Society
Founded in 1997. Still by introduction only.
In the autumn of 1997, Alistair Vere-Pemberton — a family office advisor who had spent the previous decade moving between Geneva, Hong Kong, and the Gulf — invited eleven families to dinner at Asherfield House in Gloucestershire. No agenda was circulated. No speeches were made. At the end of the evening, each family was left a small card embossed with a single word: aurello.
The word is not a place. It is not a person. It derives, loosely, from the Latin aurum — gold — and the diminutive suffix Vere-Pemberton's Milanese grandmother applied to things she considered worth keeping. The society has never offered a more formal explanation. Members stopped asking.
The Dubai chapter opened in 2003 — not in the city, but in the desert beyond it, in a compound that doesn't appear on any map its members have shared. Singapore followed in 2011: a door on Emerald Hill with no name on it, which is its own kind of name.
The society provides family office services, corporate advisory, and private introductions for Members and Fellows. It also provides three addresses where members may eat, think, and be left alone — which, in the experience of most members, is the more frequently required service.
Services
Family office advisory Corporate services Private introductions Estate and succession planning Cross-border structuring
The council
The society is governed by a council of Fellows who meet quarterly at the Dubai chapter. Decisions are communicated by post. The council has no public membership list. Fellows know who sits on it.
Membership
There is no application form.
Associates are proposed in writing by an existing Member or Fellow and seconded by another. The council meets on the first Monday of each quarter. Outcomes are communicated by post. The waiting period is currently fourteen months.
Membership tiers
Associate
Introduced by a member. Single chapter access.
One chapter access
Dining and seasonal events
Proposed and seconded in writing
Member
Full access. Card issued from Dubai.
All three chapters
Membership card
Family office services
Full programme access
Fellow
By council invitation only.
All three chapters
Corporate services suite
Private room access
Council communications
Upper room, Singapore
Founding Member
The original eleven families and those since elevated.
All chapters, unrestricted
Unnamed on any register
No member number issued
Register an interest
If you have been introduced by an existing member and wish to register an interest in membership, you may do so here. The society will respond by post within six weeks. If you have not been introduced by an existing member, we are not the right arrangement for you at this time.
Full name
Introduced by
Correspondence address
We do not respond by email. Please allow six weeks.